In my next two articles, I’m going to share with you how to avoid the ten biggest and most embarrassing mistakes men do when seducing or dating women. Doing only one of these mistakes could – and most probably will – get you dumped faster than you could imagine.
Let’s get started.
1. Forgetting your own life
A lot of guys tend to forget their lives when they start seducing or dating a new woman. They’ve hardly met her and they’re already canceling their Friday night’s out with the boys.
The key is… Even if you’ve met a great girl, don’t start canceling plans and changing your schedule for her. She has to prove that she’s worth it. Don’t put everything aside just yet. Keep on doing what you’ve done until now. Keep your friends, and hobbies, they’ll provide you with a “breath of fresh air” every man needs.
2. Becoming a slave
Don’t be at a woman’s service 24 hours a day. You had your own life before meeting each other, so keep doing what you’ve been doing until now.
The key is… Don’t let her command you, she has no right to do that. Don’t depend on her, be independent.
Keep in mind that she doesn’t have any power over you, unless you hand her the power yourself. And don’t accept everything she asks. You have to give her what she needs, not what she wants.
3. Giving too much too soon
Many guys have great plans when they start a relationship, even though they’ve been dating for only a week. Planning great things in the early stages of a relationship will work against you.
The key is… Don’t rush it, she has to prove that she’s worth your time and energy. And when it comes to money, you have to know that although there are more expenditures than when you’re single (eating out, gifts, phones, movies), you mustn’t be paying for everything and buying her truckloads of gifts.
4. Being a “nice guy”
Being a nice guy is the worst thing you can be when it comes to attracting, seducing and dating women.
Nice guys don’t have clue about what they’re doing. They always ask their girl for approval, because deep down, they feel insecure.
And who wants to be dating an insecure guy?
Women have a built-in radar that detects insecurity in guys, it’s like a sixth sense. And once a guy displays a “nice guy” attitude, he’s out of the game. And 99 % of the time, he won’t be coming back as a “potential partner”.
5. Calling and writing too often
Talking on the phone can be very time-consuming, as well as money-consuming. Unless you get a great conversation on a specific subject going on when you’re on the phone, avoid talking too long or too often.
The key is… Seeing each other is much more profitable than talking on the phone. Plus, you mustn’t be the one doing all the calls all the time.
If she has a phone, she can call you too, right?
There you have it. The first part of “The 10 Killer Mistakes That Destroy Your Success With Women”. Be sure to check out the second part of this article, which will be coming out in a few days.
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