Preparation is a vital of part of sensual massage. Set the stage remembering to cater to all five senses, sight, sound, smell, touch and taste.
Firstly send the children to the in laws. You don’t want to interrupt this beautiful moment.
Choose music that you both enjoy. Capture the mood through music. Make sure you have enough music to last a couple of hours. Nothing worse than having to stop midstream to change the CD.
Dim the lights. Light some candles. You can never have too many.
Have your massage oil at the ready. Make sure it is not cold when you apply it. Put some in your hands and rub them together before applying to the body.
Prepare the area you are going to be massaging. Clean towels or sheets, clean pillow, minky blanket. The room needs to be warm with a soft glow from the candles to create a wonderful, sensual romantic mood.
Prepare some chocolate dipped strawberries and champagne, or other treats you may prefer. Drink from beautiful glasses.
Begin your massage using approximately 2 tablespoons of massage oil into the palm of your hand and rub hands together, warming the oil. Begin with long gentle strokes down the back, in a rhythmical, slow, gentle manner. Ask your partner if they prefer deeper strokes, slower, lighter etc.
Move across the shoulders and arms using your body weight rather than your arm strength.
Proceed to the legs and feet and across the buttocks.
Ask your partner to turn over and cover your partner with the blanket or towel to keep your them warm.
Begin at the chest. Pay close attention to your female partners breasts, and remember gentle, gentle, gentle. (Hint, less is more)
Glide over the stomach and down the the legs, ever so lightly brushing the genitals on the way down to the legs and feet. No groping. Gently massage inner thighs and remember to do both legs and both feet.
Keep it slow and rhythmical, and remember you are doing this for your partner. Slow down and enjoy the moment.
The rest is up to you!
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